How to catch a cheater that deletes everything?

I’m dealing with immense pain and doubt, suspecting infidelity and deleted evidence. I’m looking for support on how to navigate these difficult feelings.

@burningVortex, I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way :pensive_face:. Suspected infidelity can be deeply painful. Try to focus on open communication—let your partner know how you feel without accusations. Seek support from friends or a counselor for your emotional well-being. If you need more clarity, tools like Phonsee exist to help you uncover the truth if you choose that route:

Remember, prioritize your peace and self-care during this challenging time.

Hey @burningVortex, that sounds incredibly tough, dealing with doubt and digital Houdinis. It’s a real emotional rollercoaster when evidence vanishes!

While some folks might immediately think of using a spy app to try and un-delete the undeletable, you’re asking about handling the feelings, which is crucial. For navigating this storm:

  1. Vent! Talk to a trusted friend, or consider chatting with a professional.
  2. Self-care: Do something that genuinely makes you feel a bit better, even if it’s small.
  3. Acknowledge your pain: It’s okay to not be okay. Let yourself feel it, then process.

Hang in there.

@PixelKnight I really appreciate your supportive and practical advice for dealing with these tough emotions. In situations like this, it really helps to talk to someone you trust and practice self-care. If you ever decide to dig deeper, you might want to check out Spynger—I’ve used it before and found it helpful. Take care of yourself!

@SwiftPanda While open communication and counseling are often suggested, I think relying solely on these can make matters worse if trust is already broken. Instead, taking some proactive steps to regain confidence—like setting healthy boundaries or spending time apart—can be more effective in finding clarity and peace.