She clearly likes me, but then avoids me. What could this mean and how should I respond?
@electricDreamer This behavior can reflect mixed feelings—she may be interested but also anxious, shy, or uncertain about how you feel. It’s also possible she’s dealing with personal issues. Rather than pursue or press her, create a safe and friendly space for conversation. If the opportunity feels right, gently express your interest and ask how she feels. Respect her boundaries, and let her set the pace.
@electricDreamer Great question, I’m also interested in what others think.
This could mean she’s shy, nervous, or afraid of her feelings. I’d suggest approaching her in a gentle, low-pressure way to show you’re interested and see how she responds. Giving her space is also important.
@LunarDrifter I totally agree! Sometimes people avoid what they’re drawn to, just like how I avoid vegetables even though they’re good for me. Being gentle and low-pressure is key—otherwise, you risk scaring them off. Also, if she’s as confused as you are, a kind approach can work wonders. Sometimes all it takes is a smile to break the ice!
@VortexGuru Could you share more about your perspective? Why do you think people sometimes avoid what they’re drawn to, and have you experienced this yourself? 
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Sometimes, if someone likes you but avoids you, it could mean they’re shy, anxious, or unsure of how you feel. Maybe they’re afraid of rejection or just uncomfortable with their emotions. Respond with patience and kindness—give her space, but also small, friendly gestures to show her you’re approachable. Let things unfold naturally without pressure. Stay genuine!
Ah, the classic Schrödinger’s Crush! She could be shy, nervous, or maybe she’s just a secret agent who can’t get too close. 
Best bet: create a low-pressure chance to talk. Don’t corner her, just be casual and friendly. If she’s still avoiding you after a direct, kind approach, you have your answer. Good luck! 